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Let's put it this way; if we're having a discussion about seeing top-priced wl's then a response like "I see ladies who charge $1000 an hour on a regular basis, but my disposable income is such that I can afford it comfortably" then I have no problem with that since it is in the context of the discussion and gives insight in to why this client can and does make the choices he makes. Indeed I wish that I was in the position to do the same! However an intro along the lines "Hi, I'm Fred. Oh and by the way, I'm a millionaire" seems to serve little purpose other than one-upsmanship. Success is nothing to be ashamed of and indeed self-made men (and women) who have achieved their wealth ethically  are considered by me to be role models who can set an example that others, especially youth, can aspire to.

Many of the specialists at the hospital where I work are millionaires many times over but in 20 years I've never heard one of them ever discuss their personal wealth. The respect they command comes entirely from their knowledge base and skill, not their bank balance which has no relevance to whether or not they make the right diagnoses and initiate the most appropriate treatment.   

Just wanted to clarify that I side with your approach Studley but it does interest me to see the reaction of others as well as my own squirm factor when such subjects are out in the open discussion.

By the way - good post

Apologies to posters introducing themselves here, I shouldn't have changed the subject.
It just bugs me.

Please continue  .

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If you put yourself down, someone will always attempt to lift you up. Nice.
If you put yourself up, someone will always see fit to bring you back down. Sad.

A primary reason people dont mention their succes is because its socially unacceptable, as you have indicated. The point I'm making is...why?

Let's put it this way; if we're having a discussion about seeing top-priced wl's then a response like "I see ladies who charge $1000 an hour on a regular basis, but my disposable income is such that I can afford it comfortably" then I have no problem with that since it is in the context of the discussion and gives insight in to why this client can and does make the choices he makes. Indeed I wish that I was in the position to do the same! However an intro along the lines "Hi, I'm Fred. Oh and by the way, I'm a millionaire" seems to serve little purpose other than one-upsmanship. Success is nothing to be ashamed of and indeed self-made men (and women) who have achieved their wealth ethically  are considered by me to be role models who can set an example that others, especially youth, can aspire to.

Many of the specialists at the hospital where I work are millionaires many times over but in 20 years I've never heard one of them ever discuss their personal wealth. The respect they command comes entirely from their knowledge base and skill, not their bank balance which has no relevance to whether or not they make the right diagnoses and initiate the most appropriate treatment.   

Good post. Class is an attitude thing, not a money thing.
The very rich don't have anything to prove and are generally lovely people.
The recent rich, esp lawyers and accountants seem to have to prove something to everyone on how superior they aren't.

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Why do people take such offense at others mentioning their success? Insecure? What?
I don't doubt many put it out here just to show off but so what, does it strictly need to be such a taboo? Maybe they're just proud of themselves, and rightly so.

Agree, Ms Munro. Insecurity is one possibility (although having met Studley briefly I don't see him as insecure in the slightest) another view is the socialised discomfort with those who are open and direct about their success.

 I have quickly learnt not to trust them. I've got my guard up these days.

We are not all the same you know 

1. How old are you? 36

2. Married / single / otherwise attached? Single

3. FS or R & T? FS

4. How long you been punting? 14 Years

5. How often do you punt? 2-4 Months

6. Blue or white collar worker? N/A

7. If you are attached, do you shag women other than your partner or WLs? No

8. Do you drink, smoke or gamble? N/A

9. Private or parlour? Both leaning towards Private

10. Ever had a relationship with a WL you have met whilst she's working? Yes but I have quickly learnt not to trust them as one did a runner with $1,300 and the another stole my mobile phone. For those who know me say I'm too nice for my own good. I've got my guard up these days.

Why do people take such offense at others mentioning their success? Insecure? What?
I don't doubt many put it out here just to show off but so what, does it strictly need to be such a taboo? Maybe they're just proud of themselves, and rightly so.

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How old are you? 40 in August
2. Married / single / otherwise attached? Single.

3. FS or R & T? Only ever tried FS
. Dont see the point in anything less.
4. How long you been punting? 20 years or so

5. How often do you punt? Weekly
6. Blue or white collar worker? White collar, self made millionaire.

7. If you are attached, do you shag women other than your partner or WLs? Have done in the past, some have joined in!

8. Do you drink, smoke or gamble? Ocaisionally, not tobacco, why waste your money.

9. Private or parlour? Started with parlour but much prefer private 

10. Ever had a relationship with a W/L you met whilst shes working? oh yes a few times.

1.  How old are you? 27 years... almost 28!

2. Married / single / otherwise attached? Single.

3. FS or R & T? Only ever tried FS though I would be open to good ol R&T too I guess.

4. How long you been punting? Started last year but very infrequently, 2-6 months between punts. Think I punted a grand total of four times last year.

5. How often do you punt? Won't count last year as it was all a bit random, this year averaged about once every 6-8 weeks but have been going more often just recently.

6. Blue or white collar worker? White collar, though at the moment no collar!

7. If you are attached, do you shag women other than your partner or WLs? N/A

8. Do you drink, smoke or gamble? Drink - no, friends have tried but doesn't interest me. Smoke - nope never, inhaling smoke just doesn't appeal! Gamble - not really, I have been known to buy a Lotto ticket when the Powerball jackpots to something ridiculous 

9. Private or parlour? Started with parlour but much prefer private 

10. Ever had a relationship with a WL you have met whilst she's working? No.

1.  How old are you? Early 50's.

2. Married / single / otherwise attached? Legally married, emotionally single.

3. FS or R & T? FS.

4. How long you been punting? 20 odd years, with long breaks in between.

5. How often do you punt? Very irregularly due to a lack of time,and my need to find a truly exceptional lady.

6. Blue or white collar worker? White collar.

7. If you are attached, do you shag women other than your partner or WLs? No, do not shag my partner either, no interest.

8. Do you drink, smoke or gamble? Drink, fine wine, gave up smoking many, many years ago. My businesses are a constant gamble!

9. Private or parlour? Private, but occasionally there may be an exceptional lady who is yet to jump to private at a parlour. Scarce though!

10. Ever had a relationship with a WL you have met whilst she's working? No

This is fabulous you guys 

1.  How old are you? 42

2. Married / single / otherwise attached? Eternally single

3. FS or R & T? Both, but good r&t hard to find, so more FS (well actually BJ due to...well nevermind )

4. How long you been punting? 18ish years

5. How often do you punt? very irregularly due to a variety of factors (health, money, libido)

6. Blue or white collar worker? was white collar, but now no collar due to health probs

7. If you are attached, do you shag women other than your partner or WLs? No

8. Do you drink, smoke or gamble? just barely, not any more, lotto occasionally

9. Private or parlour? Prefer parlour as I prefer to just roll up when the mood takes me, rather than make an appointment in advance.

10. Ever had a relationship with a WL you have met whilst she's working? I wish!

Details please, my ears are flapping 

Absolutely not ! It happened more than once some years ago.

Later on I learned to manage the difference between professional & personal connections with honesty and openness, sometimes well, sometimes with bumpy patches.

10. Ever had a relationship with a WL you have met whilst she's working?  Yes

Details please, my ears are flapping 

How rude, can't find an entry on here with my name on it :

1.  How old are you? Early 50's

2. Married / single / otherwise attached? Single (officially separated but out of there over 5 years)

3. FS or R & T? FS, R&T is way to hard to find a decent massage so waste of money & see answer to 5

4. How long you been punting? Roughly 15-16 years, haven't for a while, "retired" for a lot of reasons but every so often tempted back by someone or a situation that takes my fancy as a one off

5. How often do you punt? See 4 but until a couple of years ago 3-4 hours at a time with a regular 2-3 times a month, various other explorations prior to that  

6. Blue or white collar worker? White

7. If you are attached, do you shag women other than your partner or WLs? Never did, never would

8. Do you drink, smoke or gamble? Yes, never, used to but got over it

9. Private or parlour? Private, the production line nature of parlours, discretion & seeking intimacy & companionship as much as sex for extended sessions ruled out parlours.

10. Ever had a relationship with a WL you have met whilst she's working?  Yes

Have you ever walked into a parlour and been the only guy amongst 15 woman? quite an uncomfortable feeling.[/li][/list]

I can only imagine